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How I Feel in My Church After I Left LGBT

This booklet celebrates the experience of those of us who have found their true selves in safe churches, where they can be authentic having chosen to move away from the sexual identities and behaviours that confused them.

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We interviewed 9 men and women from our community, who formerly identified as lgbt.

They were asked what the INVOLVEMENT of their church was in their journey of sexual restoration and emotional healing.

What support did their church offer them?

What could've been done
better?

What should other churches consider to better support and minister to ex-LGBT people?

I lost almost all of my friends and acquaintances. I have a few

freedom to
change my
mind

What choices are available to those seeking a different way in terms of gender identity, sex, worldview and lifestyle?

Why is my walk
with jesus
essential?

How has your faith impacted your transformation process?

Are there safe churches for
minorities?

What pressures face those who no longer identify as LGBT?

How I feel in my church after I left LGBT

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This booklet contains a series of questions and answers meant to instruct Christian leaders and believers in general how to better support those coming out of LGBT identities and lifestyles and those on the journey of restoration and healing, who are still struggling with same-sex attraction and gender confusion.

It also contains a section of advice that make a church a safe place for individuals to flourish in their walk with Jesus.

 

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Presence Seekers

We meet online and face to face to strengthen one another in Christ. God’s presence is our lifeline. His Word is our nourishment.

Kingdom Builders

We help the church provide better support for men and women struggling with unwanted LGBT identities. We challenge the status quo in society.

Rights Defenders

Experience shows that there's benefit from ethical support exploring sexual fluidity. Such help may reduce unwanted feelings. Access to this care should be defended.

Truth Tellers

We uphold and share the scriptural, scientific and experiential truth that sexual feelings are not immutable, but are fluid.

By the time I started secondary school, the world of porn wasn’t enough for me. I started strip dancing. Whole crowds adored me. I used drugs to numb the voices in my head. I gave up everything. Endless relationships didn’t satisfy. I started working as a prostitute in a brothel. I was as good as a piece of meat.

So, we engaged in a same-sex relationship, in which we prayed and worshipped together while living in that sin. So, time began to pass and I was further and further away from God. Four years later, in 2019, while again living a very wild life, I became pregnant. That’s when I found that Jesus was still waiting for my return, like I was His prodigal daughter. I left Him but He never left me.

My testimony begins in 2015, when I began having vivid and frightening dreams. My gut told me there was something wrong, so I went to a church for guidance and counselling. The dreams would eventually stop and I would go back to indulging in the gay life, but whenever I dipped my toes back into the gay scene, the dreams would come back to haunt me and it got scarier every time; a pattern was emerging.

Liam Hayden

"I felt the love of God there like never before and He began to heal me — faster than I thought!"

Ex-Gay

I began leading multiple lives. I was ‘out’ to my close friends as ‘bisexual’ — I couldn’t stand being unable to have a wife and children in the future like I’d desired from a young age.
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Liam Hayden

"I felt the love of God there like never before and He began to heal me — faster than I thought!"

Ex-Gay

I began leading multiple lives. I was ‘out’ to my close friends as ‘bisexual’ — I couldn’t stand being unable to have a wife and children in the future like I’d desired from a young age.
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Rebecca Paris

“I slept an atheist, but awoke asking about God.”

Ex-Lesbian

I started dating women and became aggressive as my fits intensified. I was diagnosed with severe depression and became suicidal.
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Rebecca Paris

“I slept an atheist, but awoke asking about God.”

Ex-Lesbian

I started dating women and became aggressive as my fits intensified. I was diagnosed with severe depression and became suicidal.
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Victor Novițchi

“I longed for male affirmation, but there was nowhere for me to get it.”

Ex-Gay

I struggled by myself with all my feelings, especially guilt and shame. Everyone would have just told me to act on my feelings. But that’s not what I wanted.
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Victor Novițchi

“I longed for male affirmation, but there was nowhere for me to get it.”

Ex-Gay

I struggled by myself with all my feelings, especially guilt and shame. Everyone would have just told me to act on my feelings. But that’s not what I wanted.
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Janine Frackowiak

“God did the impossible with me and gave me a new life.”

Ex-Lesbian

I became aware of my deception in my perception of her as ‘my man.’ This Mr and Mrs thing was just not sustainable. I tried to make it work, but we were divided.
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Janine Frackowiak

“God did the impossible with me and gave me a new life.”

Ex-Lesbian

I became aware of my deception in my perception of her as ‘my man.’ This Mr and Mrs thing was just not sustainable. I tried to make it work, but we were divided.
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X-OUT-LOUD: Emerging Ex-LGBT Voices

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“X-Out-Loud: Emerging Ex-LGBT Voices” features 44 unique stories from 22 countries of men and women leaving LGBT identities. This collection of testimonies proves that change becomes possible when we encounter the risen Saviour. 

 

Our book presents a joyful and hopeful narrative that as men and women identify with their biological sex and are set free from hurtful experiences, they too can build strong godly families and raise their own children if they so desire. Jesus is still smashing impossibilities as He pours out His Spirit upon all. 

 

In the face of an unceasing wave of multinational legislation against the global Ex-LGBT community, here’s the reality that hundreds and thousands of people refuse to be forced into gay or trans culture. This is a wake-up call for the nations to incline their ears to listen to the powerful stories of our Forerunners.